Correlation between singlehood and loneliness

I have attained realisation recently in my reply to a friend's question and perhaps have even unlocked the mystery of the correlation between singlehood and loneliness. Maybe for singles, who are also residents of planet la-la wonderland, we are just too self-absorbed and pre-occupied with feeling this and thinking that all the time. Thus loneliness feels like the tail-end of a breeze. Perhaps its also the fragments of artistic flare in us which only want to seek inspiration from pain and tears. But we can hardly grow out of anything. Because for my fellow self-absorbed singles la-la wonderland comrades, we will evetually get over all misguided and unrequited love just to fall into another abyss of page out of Danielle Steel .. perfectly fulfilling our primary motto of to live & feel.